National Men Make Dinner Day isn’t for the average man who makes dinner for his family on a regular or semi-regular basis. Instead, it’s a holiday that’s designed to encourage men who have never stepped foot in the kitchen to roll up their sleeves and cook for their family. And that doesn’t mean that he should fire up the BBQ—because that’s definitely against the rules. And yes, there are a bunch of rules for this holiday, and men should take note of these rules when they observe this day on the first Thursday in November.
The History Of National Men Make Dinner Day
This holiday was created by Sandy Sharkey in 2001 and was announced on her website menmakedinnrday.com. On her website, she lists a number of rules and no-nos that give men a roadmap as to how they should observe the day.
The “Rules” Of National Men Make Dinner Day
Although most holidays have recommendations for observing them, few holidays actually have a list of rules that participates are supposed to follow. This one does, however. This holiday has twelve rules that men are supposed to follow to properly observe this holiday, as well as a list of the things that the men are supposed to avoid serving on this holiday.
- This holiday is celebrated the first Thursday of every November
- Men must agree to participate in the day without coercion or promise of a reward.
- The man must choose a published recipe by himself and it can’t be from his partner’s cookbooks.
- The main meal must be composed of at least four ingredients and need more than just a fork to cook.
- The man has to shop for all ingredients needed.
- The man must organize all ingredients on the counter without his partner’s help.
- The man can listen to music while cooking but must be at least 30-feet away from the TV remote.
- The man must follow the recipe carefully.
- The man must clean as he cooks
- The man has to set the table, serve the beverages, and light the candles.
- The man has to serve their spouse and other family members.
- The man has to clean up after dinner and return to the table to receive feedback on his cooking performance. At this point, the TV remote is returned to him.
There a few things that the man shouldn’t do while he is observing this holiday. Below are some of the things that shouldn’t be a part of any National Men Make Dinner Day—at least according to Sandy Sharkey.
- No chewing gum
- No barbecued food
- No sandwiches
- No reheating dinner from the night before.
- No cotton candy
- No take-out pizza
Celebrating National Men Make Dinner Day
Celebrating National Men Make Dinner Day is an easy day to celebrate. It only requires men making dinner for the day (and following the prescribed rules), while their spouse enjoys their meal. Of course, participants can also post the results of the holiday by taking pictures of the prepared meal and posting it on social media sites with the hashtag #NationalMenMakeDinnerDay.
When is National Men Make Dinner Day?
|This year (2020)||November 5 (Thursday)||Multiple dates - more|
|Next year (2021)||November 4 (Thursday)||Multiple dates - more|
|Last year (2019)||November 1 (Friday)||Multiple dates - more|